How to wash your loved one's hair

There are some dementia patients who enjoy looking after their appearance, particularly their hair, and some who don’t like it at all. Whichever applies to your loved one in need of dementia support, there are many aspects and adjustments to consider that will make washing hair easy to incorporate into their routine. 

Make them feel comfortable

People in dementia care may not remember the reason for washing and it could cause  additional confusion and distress, especially if they need assistance and are embarrassed by it. Make bath time easy by keeping a set routine, ensuring the room temperature is pleasant and water isn’t too hot or too cold for them. The elderly often become more sensitive to temperatures. It might be helpful to fill the bath a few inches and run the rest once they have got in. To make washing hair easier, you could install a hand-held shower, especially if you are the one washing the patient’s hair. If the person in dementia care prefers to sit down whilst showering, try using a tub bench to make them feel safe and comfortable. Most importantly, ensure they keep their dignity and privacy by closing doors and curtains, and holding out a towel for them when getting in and out of the bath or shower. Appoint a carer of the same sex, if necessary. Should the person find the idea of a full body wash overwhelming, try washing their hair over a sink as an alternative.

Consider products to suit the person in dementia care

When picking out haircare products, you’ll want to go for options that prevent stinging, in case they get into a person’s eyes. Baby shampoos are a fantastic option. Try leave-in conditioner to make the hair washing process easier and quicker. If you’re providing dementia support for someone who enjoys having their hair styled, ensure the products are gentle, easy to wash out and prevent build-up.

Help them embrace change

As your loved one ages, their appearance and hair is likely to change. Embrace it by selecting a haircut that suits their current hair type. Assist them in styling their hair so they can still feel themselves and compliment the dementia patient on the way they look. Due to limited mobility, they might not be able to attend their favourite hair salon, so consider a professional that offers home visits.

Celebrate small accomplishments together

Be kind to yourself and your loved one. There may be days when they refuse to wash their hair, so be adaptable and have dry shampoos or hair deoderisers on hand as needed. Let go of perfection and take it one step at a time. It’s a great idea to celebrate small victories by taking your loved one out to show off their fresh hairdo or treat yourselves to a special meal - anything that you can enjoy together.